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๐ธ Fortunate to have caught Bon Iver live this week...
It was our third time seeing him over the years and, man, what an amazing show! I really love how Vernon has evolved his sound over the years. Thereโs an underlying tenderness to his performances that has always resonated with me as genuine. Itโs performance, yes, but thereโs always this intimacy that he creates - no matter how large the venue/crowd is.
Oh and the light show was super unique and fun to try and figure out in real time. Hadnโt ever seen a band do that before! Elevated double-sided mirrors framed with dynamically colored LED strips. Moving up and down, tilting and undulating during the showโs entirety. Super cool!
Had the pleasure of finally being able to attend the Hardly Strictly Bluegrass festival this yearโฆ
After over a decade of being asked by my brother in law to come out to San Francisco to HSB, we finally made it out. It was definitely a memorable experience! The crowds on Saturday were definitely too much but Friday and Sunday were lovely.
It was a short visit for sure, but we love San Francisco so it was definitely worth it!






๐ธJust hanging here...
…with my god-given Gollum feet… watching the bats feast in this (finally) cooler weather. Hope yโall are doing your own lovely version of the same!
๐ธ On the way home, before the hurricane rains blew in, I noticed a longstanding church I walk by every day was getting torn down ๐.
Took a peek inside and definitely got some #StrangerThings Upside Down vibes in there.


๐ธ Starting her 44th trip around the sun with ๐ฅง!
So damn grateful you were born sweetheart! Love you so much. #pieforbreakfast #thisis44
๐ธ Damn Maine!
This evening hour light…. Our departure tomorrow is early, and even though our time here was short, itโs hard not to feel the echoes of something bigger reflecting back on us. No doubt weโll be doing the same, in kind, on the long drive home.







๐ธ Just took a solar bag shower outdoors
letting my pasty white farmer-tan skin battle it out with the last few hours of coastal Maine sunlight. It felt almost as glorious as this place we are staying in. Itโs been a shameful amount of time since @allthatmel and I have been to the rocky shores of Maine. Really grateful we made the trip. ๐
๐ธ I love it when I am out walking and shots just magically come together.
Durham is always filled with these kinds of encounters. And when the afternoon storms are rolling in like they are here? I turn down whatever is coming through my earbuds, center myself into the present, and pay close attention. I donโt have to capture it every time, but whenever I do, itโs a treat.
Those evenings… storms coming in… right before you decide to cut the back deck lights on.
Finished off the back deck repair job we started a few weeks ago!
Had some tricky cuts to make at the very end but, all in all? We think it came out great! It’s finally up to code, safe, and structurally very sound.
Now we just have attempt the rest of the back deck which is easily as rotted out as the top level replaced. ๐ All in good time.
Old houses man, I tell ya!






We all have latent ambition on the daily. Every once and a while though, that bites you back.๐ฌ this deck is gonna involve way more TLC than we originally anticipated.


๐ธ Found this photo in an old archive folder from a long gone MacBook Proโฆ
It was taken right around when we moved to Durham, NC. My first piece of writing was just accepted to be published. That was also the first time my words provided any kind of payment.
I was just starting Conduit and work was coming in.
So much has changed since then. Durhamโs not the same - that green wall has been replaced by a towering condo complex.
I’m certainly not the same either. There was a lot of joy, a lot of mistakes to learn from, a lot of anxiety and hope generated from all of the above… life basically.
This photo brought all of that back, as well as immense amounts gratitude.
Chain link sunset ๐
Been trying to get more afternoon naps in lately… ๐๐๐ด
Spring has sprung! ๐ช





